Marriage is a hard and soft knot for both groom &
bride. Because after that both of the
consort play a new role in their respective life and also has a lot of
expectation, responsibilities to caring each other’s families. But
the main tenterhook for groom side before marriage is, which type of
girl will fit for their toddler (son)?
Who should be beautiful, smart, talented, gorgeous, well heighted and
well education-sophisticated. Similarly,
Bride side also searched for well educated with earning respective salary
consists of good family environment. The
priority for family nodding is given to groom side, because traditionally whole
procedure from bride selection to dowry settlement and all function is decided
and decision taken by groom side. There
need a bid of conscious in society.
First
of all, I have realized many times at the time of bride selection for relatives
that girl is feared and trembling on her face.
Because, Our Indian Society is male-dominated society, therefore which
girl would surely hesitate who surrounded by eight-nine old age male. Girls also worried about asking questions by
the groom side and she has a lot of responsibilities to answered those
questions. I want to clear that the
question asking during selection is necessary in the interest of well educated
groom.
Family want to know how she would dominate her family and also in the absence of his husband, and how she would
dominate her family, how she would keep secure the dignity of her family and also in the absence of his husband how she
manage her responsibility? Spouse having
well understanding to pass whole life with each-other. Because, marriage life run like two wheeler
vehicle at the same platform of life.
So, I assumed that the searching for bride is very difficult decision
for groom to choose one right girl for him…
Writer:- Ashwani kumar, patna ( who ever want to become an
independent remarker)
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