Marriage is a hard and soft knot for both groom &
bride. Because after that both of the
consort play a new role in their respective life and also has a lot of
expectation, responsibilities to caring each other’s families. But
the main tenterhook for groom side before marriage is, which type of
girl will fit for their toddler (son)?
Who should be beautiful, smart, talented, gorgeous, well heighted and
well education-sophisticated. Similarly,
Bride side also searched for well educated with earning respective salary
consists of good family environment. The
priority for family nodding is given to groom side, because traditionally whole
procedure from bride selection to dowry settlement and all function is decided
and decision taken by groom side. There
need a bid of conscious in society.
First
of all, I have realized many times at the time of bride selection for relatives
that girl is feared and trembling on her face.
Because, Our Indian Society is male-dominated society, therefore which
girl would surely hesitate who surrounded by eight-nine old age male. Girls also worried about asking questions by
the groom side and she has a lot of responsibilities to answered those
questions. I want to clear that the
question asking during selection is necessary in the interest of well educated
groom.
Writer:- Ashwani kumar, patna ( who ever want to become an
independent remarker)
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